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8 adorable LGBTQ+ families to follow on Instagram

8 adorable LGBTQ+ families to follow on Instagram

Whether you are looking for inspiration, advice on expanding your own family or simply some heart-melting cuteness, these eight LGBTQ+ families are must-follow accounts.

Triplet dads JP and Iz have been chronicling their lives with sons Alex, Albert and Adrian since the kids were born.  Follow this account for adorable matching outfits and endless family fun.

Photographer Jake Santos lives in the Netherlands with her 9-year-old son, fianceé, and dog. Their beautiful family photos are filled with love and pride.

Terrell and Jarius, dads of two little ones, exude endless love. Their gorgeous family photos will bring you so many smiles.

Follow Kaila DeBesse Strickland for contagious excitement as she chronicles her pregnancy as well as her experience using reciprocal IVF to conceive.

Trans dad and activist Aydian Dowling posts utterly adorable photos of him and his family.

Krystian Gabrielle’s account is a stunning ode to her gorgeous family of four.

With bold, bright, beautiful photos, blogger Raffinee chronicles her life with her wife and three toddlers.

Trystan Reese not only displays lovely photos of his family, but he also shares his thoughts and feelings on being pregnant as a transgender man. Reese is also the founder of Trans Fertility Co, an online hub that provides education and resources on trans fertility.

Danika reviews Follow Your Arrow by Jessica Verdi – The Lesbrary

Danika reviews Follow Your Arrow by Jessica Verdi – The

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CeCe and her girlfriend, Silvie, are social media stars. They have about a million followers each, and they are #RelationshipGoals. Their ship name is Cevie, and their lives online and off are intertwined. CeCe’s picture-perfect crafted persona begins to fall apart, though, when bickering with her girlfriend turns into fighting–none of which is reflected on the app, of course–which turns into a break up. CeCe isn’t sure what her brand is now that she’s single. To complicate things further, CeCe is bisexual–she’s been out for years–and she’s starting to get a crush on a very offline guy. How will he react to her online life, and how will her Cevie fans react to him?

This is the second of two bi YA books I read that come out today! (Also check out my review of I Think I Love You by Auriane Desombre.) I have to take this space to do a little celebration of that fact! I remember when hardly any queer YA got published in a year, never mind two traditionally published bisexual YA books in the same day. Because this is the Lesbrary, I want to make clear that this features a M/F romance with a bi woman main character.

Follow Your Arrow is a coming-of-age-on-the-internet story. CeCe is immersed with “the App,” and her sense of self is wrapped up in it. She was once an outspoken activist–her walls are covered in protest signs she carried in marches–but she has sanitized this aspect of herself online. She used to get into screaming arguments with her Conservative father, until he left them. Now, she tries to make sure that nothing she does online could result in a pile-on. When her online fanbase begins to turn on her anyways, she has to re-evaluate. I appreciate that there’s some nuance here: it’s not a scare tactic about social media or “cancel culture:” the story acknowledges positives and negatives of both.

Like I Think I Love You, I really liked how this examined bisexuality as a distinct identity: not just gay light or… spicy straight. CeCe feels like she’s not considered queer enough to have pride or have it be an important part of her identity: she has talked herself out of getting a rainbow tattoo, because she doesn’t feel that she can “claim” this, or that people would object because she’s not “queer enough.” I also appreciated that she’s primarily attracted to women. Bisexuality with a preference isn’t something I’ve seen represented in YA before, but it’s very common in real life.

This turned out to be a bit of a personal read, but to explain that, I have to wander into potential spoiler territory–but not more than what’s on the back of the book. CeCe is worried that, despite being out as bi, she will receive backlash online if she dates a guy. To be clear: I have in no way at any time been famous on the internet. But I have been famous on one tiny part of the internet, which is the lesbian books part of it–at least 5 years ago. And when I started dating a guy after IDing as a lesbian for years online, I went through a miniature version of this on tumblr. Seeing people talk about your dating life and identity online, especially in a vindictive way, is very weird and definitely gets in your head (especially if you’re already going through an identity crisis). I cannot imagine being a truly public figure, because I sure couldn’t help myself from looking at that train wreck constantly until people lost interest.

I also appreciated that the story validates CeCe’s decision to set boundaries around her relationship with her father. I was worried that the trajectory was towards CeCe making amends even though her father was hateful, both politically and personally. (Mild spoiler:) Luckily, I was wrong about that. The narrative showed that she was right to separate herself, and that it is the healthiest thing for her.

I do want to give a content warning for biphobia: Follow Your Arrow includes hateful biphobic comments that I found difficult to read, but the narrative obviously contradicts them. If you’re looking for a coming of age story that considers bisexuality as an identity and the pitfalls of growing up online, I highly recommend this one!